wood chips
She says she's had enough for awhile.
This was at the rest stop in Missouri. They had a huge grass area for the dogs to play in, plus a huge playset and picnic area for the kids. We stayed there for awhile to let the kids stretch and play a little.
Like I've mentioned before, rest areas here aren't like rest areas in the west. There was a beautiful building with vending machines for snacks, and another area where you could get maps and all sorts of information on the state. Most places have bags that they give the kids with coloring books and stickers too. It was like state to state trick or treating for the kids.
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The 'boy' truck.
This one is for my dad. Pop quiz: where are we??
This is what we looked like last Monday, just after going through downtown Louisville. (Mmm, look at that greeeen.) This is also the view I pretty much had all the way across the country. My truck was faster than Mike's since I wasn't pulling a car, so every now and then I would pass the boys and lead for awhile, or pull off on an off ramp to let Mike pass so the girl truck could catch up again and fall in behind. Might as well have a little fun on the road to break up the monotony right?
Today I realized that we have been here for a week. I can't tell if it feels like it or not. In one way, I feel settled and feel like I know my way around pretty well. It feels like home. But then again, there are the boxes and piles of homeless items that remind me that a week really isn't a very long time.
Here are some pictures from the road. The story is too long and boring to really get into. In short, it took us forever to get here because of TWO, yes TWO replacement trucks from Penske. The one we rolled in with was the third truck. So that also meant 3 times that my furniture got moved. I won't even begin with the frustration of the multiple broken items because of this. Grr. But it's all good now.
Piper fogging up the window from the deck. I don't think she's used to ever having this much room to run. She is constantly running, and constantly has her tongue out. That fence you can see in the photo is part of the neighbor's fence, which is the only fence around. (It's a dog run to keep thier dog contained.) Otherwise, there are no fences in between the houses. Piper will run all the way down the hill and back. Dog heaven. The other day after it rained there was a huge puddle that she ran right too and happily pranced around in it. We're going to find the lake this week. Even my frogs love it here. They got a new aquarium after moving in. Who is a cute froggie woggie?!? Yes you are.
(Lisa, click on the photo to make it larger. Come on, I know you want to. You know you love my frogs. He's totally cuter enlarged!)
The boys on the deck. We have told a few new people that we have met how we aren't used to the open backyard thing. The yards are big, but still... no fences. So you feel like you have your own space and privacy, but you wave and go about your business. When we've told people that Arizona has 8 foot cinder block fences between the yards they look at us like we have two heads.I wish I could say this was mine, but I do get to see plenty of it from now on.
I have told some people, but haven't 'officially' broken the news yet. We are going to be moving to Kentucky in one more month. Mike and I have talked about it off and on for quite some time, but due to a lot of circumstances we have finally decided that this move will be the best thing for our family right now. We are planning on heading out the first part of June.
It hasn't been a secret that the commuting with Mike's job has been difficult on all of us. Since his domicile airport is Cincinnati (which is actually IN Kentucky across the river from the city of Cincinnati) he will be able to spend much more time at home. When he is on reserve, he'll be home. When he has been on a trip, he'll be home at the end of the day. This is mucho relief. I wish he could count the hours spent in an airplane flying back and forth to AZ and back as flight hours because I'm sure he's logged a lot just in coming home.
So that's the story. I'm still trying to figure out how I feel about this. I mean, I am a self proclaimed rut kind of girl, and the thought of moving across the country means A LOT of work. I mean I've been in this current house for 4 years now and I finally feel like everything has a home and unpacked! Here we go again!
But, I'm a horse girl. So I will really enjoy that aspect of it. Rolling green hills with white fences, big red barns....
Weather.... I know, ask me again after the first real winter but right now I am so excited at the prospect of seeing FOUR real seasons. We don't get much of a spring or fall in Arizona, there are more like three levels of summer. Warm - bearable hot - and hotter than hell I want to jab a fork between my eyes and end it all HOT. - and a nice mild winter in between.
I know we are going to be such geeks when it comes to seeing our first snow. I have these romantic ideas of snow days with hot chocolate, making snowmen, and white Christmases. Realistically I know that this desert dweller is going to freeze her rear end off, that ice storms suck, shoveling snow sucks, brown/black dirty snow and wet feet suck, plus I have no idea where you keep an ice scraper. Mike called me one day from the airport parking lot during an ice storm and said that the car door was frozen shut. So if you keep the ice scraper IN the car, how do you get to it if your door is frozen shut? Do you keep one on your keychain? What does an ice scraper even look like?!?! This will all be new to me for sure.
No matter what, I really am looking forward to the adventure. I have lived here since I was small, so there are a lot of things I'm looking forward to that will be different. That area of the country has so much to offer, and I plan on taking advantage of free flight benefits to visit Washington D.C. to see the cherry blossoms, go to American Girl in Chicago with Megan, go to New York, and a million other places. I love history, and so much of what I've read about I can go see.
So this is where I have been and why I've probably seemed so quiet. This has been a stressful decision. I'm going to miss so much out here though. Of course my family and my friends. I'll be back though. I don't think they have real mexican food out there. I went to In & Out on the way to taking Mike to the airport today and realized that may be the last time for quite awhile I'll be there! Wow, that freaked me out a bit. I'm so spoiled! California won't always be one state away to just go over on a long weekend. Lots of things.
The kids are really excited! They are all young enough that they aren't worried about meeting new people there. Megan is just as excited as I am about the horsie-ness of it all. I mean, there are horses on the license plates!! And they are all excited about Mike being home more again. We'll be moving at a perfect time too. Right when they get out of school here. Then we'll have a big family road trip, which we are all excited about.
I'll keep in touch. There is always email and blogs. I promise! But there you have it. It feels like such a load off of my shoulders knowing that we've made the decision and things are starting to roll. :) Now... who's good at packing? ;)
Kind of Tara-esq don't you think? Haha. I can only wish. Truth is, he stood still for less than a second when I got that picture. Then when he saw the camera pointed towards him he went right into 'boy' mode. Dork.
But I do think if given the chance to actually compose a photo, it could have turned out pretty cool. I think now I'll be looking for painted stucco walls for backdrops. Only I'll bring a more willing subject. ;)
More soon.
We got up the next morning (and had another waffle!!) and headed towards St. Louis. The trip from Kansas City to here was still just as gorgeous. Rolling green hills, dotted with little perfect farms.
I was talking with my dad on the phone right before seeing this. He's from St. Louis. Hi dad!
I love the first time you see a monument or landmark that you've seen on tv and movies forever. Kind of like the first time I went across the Golden Gate Bridge, or saw Times Square or the Empire State Building. You kind of forget that these things are real. Then when you actually see them, it is cool. It's hard to describe. I figured the St. Louis arch was big, but I didn't think it would be this big. Photos do it absolutely no justice. It is HUGE. Especially when you see it in contrast to the city that is on the right, with all of the big buildings.
We kept on driving... and driving....
through southern Illinois (I waved at Mandy up north!) and Indiana. I forget what state it was in, but we stopped at a place called Effingham. My fourth grade humor kept thinking that was funny. "Let's stop at the Effing McDonalds and get a Effing soda!" I'm so easily amused.
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It's hard to remember after living in Arizona forever, that there are cool bridges like this, with wide rolling rivers underneath. It is quite a contrast to our concrete bridges that usually go over dry rivers. This was the last one before arriving in Kentucky. Infact, right on the other side of it is the 'Welcome to Kentucky' sign.
taken while driving, which is why there is a speed limit sign in the way. Dang. But this is Mike's 'office.' - Where he hangs when he's not at home.
There are tulip beds all over the airport. To a desert dweller, trust me, that is impressive!! They were so pretty!!!
We got into Kentucky a little before dinner time. We drove around a little and I got a chance to see a bit more than I did on my last trip out there. We had dinner and then went across another bridge into Cincinnati. This area of Kentucky is right on the border (it's the little bump on the northern most part of the state) so basically you have a very short drive across another one of those cool bridges into downtown Cincinnati.
Then back to the hotel to get some sleep before I headed back home early the next morning. I never got used to the 3 hour time difference. I stayed up late, and of course had a hard time getting up the next morning! Blah.
I enjoyed the fact that Mike could go through security with me since he was in his uniform and was heading to work shortly after my plane left. So he was able to take me to the gate and see me off. (Like the old days!)
The plane ride home was great. It was a newer plane that had the screens built into the back of the seat in front of you. You can watch pay per view movies, HBO shows, and some free tv. I ended up watching E! channel. Nothing like mindless celebrity stuff on a 4 hour flight. I watched the top 30 celebrity fights, and then E! True Hollywood Story on Lindsay Lohan. I was home before I knew it! I'm spoiled now. I can't go on a plane that doesn't offer this. I even played trivia with about 10 other people on this screen, and programmed my own little playlist from the CD's that you could choose from.
It was great to get back and see the kids. I missed them. It was a fun trip.
A little random U2 photo for me and Kaelene. ;)
And speaking of funky things Trevor has said... I was telling a friend today via email about something that we are both struggling with. I was trying to explain how one nice thing about getting older is realizing that you start to like yourself better, and learn more about who you are. We're both pretty big people pleasers, which is pretty much like running on a hamster wheel. No matter how fast you keep going, you still end up in the same place. You just end up out of breath.
So I was telling her about a little quote we use around our house a lot that pretty much translates into: "Whatever makes YOU happy." People pleasing is tiring. And doesn't always work.
A couple of years ago Matthew and Trevor were watching a bug crawl on a rock. Matthew being the typical boy wanted to lift up his foot and squash it. For no reason other than him just being a boy. (Ok, and I admit to some bug torture when I was a kid too. I coudn't read, I had NO toys and I walked uphill in the snow to school both ways...ok, maybe that is a little dramatic and untrue, but who hasn't smushed at least one bug in their life? I own it.)
So back to the rock.
Matthew is about to lift his foot up and says, "I want to squash it!!"
Trevor,"No don't squash him, he's just doing his buggay thang."
It's a good life theory huh? ;) There'd be peace in the world if we all just did our buggay thang.
So there you go people. Just keep on keeping on and doin' your buggay thang. It will keep you happy. I swear.