I have been MIA again for a few days. Just stuff that has kept me busy, and then I spent all day yesterday out with my little girl.
My MIL took the boys all day and overnight for me while Mike was out of town. So Megan and I started our day yesterday after cheer. We went out for lunch, went to Justice and found a ton of cute clothes for back to school. I would say that 85% of what we found was on clearance too. That is the one really good thing about AZ. For some reason, they put out these adorable fall clothes for the next season coming up, but it is still pretty hot for many more months. So all of the shorts and short sleeve things are on clearance so they can put out all of the long sleeve things, and wool skirts!!! LOL.
So we spent probably 3 hours in ONE store trying on clothes. Then we went on over to the Chandler Mall. We were there for a long time and found a few more things for school and had dinner.
We came home and scrapped until 11:00 last night and then finally went to bed. It was a blast.
Anyway....I don't know how I got off on that rant.
Today we stopped at a friend's house to drop off some Polly Pocket stuff that she had left last week. Her mom asked if Megan wanted to stay for awhile and go swimming and then she would bring her back by when they had to leave for an appointment.
A little background: There is another girl at Megan' school that has that queen bee mentality. She is obnoxious, has rich parents so she buys everything for popularity, and for some reason has decided that she doesn't like Megan. I personally think it is because Megan was the last new girl in the class last year, and Megan might have stolen some of this little girl's thunder.
Then two weeks after school ended, there was a slumber party that Megan came home from crying. She said
evil girl was there and was mean to her. Apparently evil girl said that Megan stepped on her and didn't say she was sorry, and rallied the rest of the little girls to shun Megan for the rest of the party. Even the birthday girl told Megan that she would never invite her over to her house again. So she has been thinking about that all summer.
Fortunately
evil girl has been away ALL summer until last week, so we haven't had to deal with her.
OK, there really is a point to all this, so stay with me. Today Megan comes home from nice girl's house and is upset. She said that nice girl told Megan that
evil girl was at her house last week and said that Megan is retarded. I asked Megan what nice girl said to
evil girl, and she said she didn't say anything. I asked her if they talked about it anymore after nice girl said that to Megan and she said no. I'm really surprised that nice girl brought it up to Megan to be honest. They really have similar personalities so I don't know why she said that to her. She is usually very compassionate.
I think
evil girl found out that nice girl has spent a lot of time with her this summer, and she might be a little jealous of that. Who knows.
But why is this starting so early? I just want to go over and punch
evil girl in the face. There is absolutely nothing that Megan has done to evil girl other than exist. Have any of you had anything like this happen with your older girls? Lisa? Beth? Jen? June? What do I do? These little girl politics are going to drive me crazy.
Megan makes friends easily, but evil girl seems to have some sort of hypnotic thing over the entire female part of the class. (Hmmm, buying friendship???) I just don't know what to do about this and it totally breaks my heart.
So, what can I do? Mike and I think that we should wait until school starts, give it a few weeks, and see what happens. If we should talk to
evil girl's mom. Who we actually know, so it isn't like we would back her into a corner and point fingers at
evil girl. Just try to say, "They are so young, what can we do about this?"
I would never consider doing this if they were older. I know that they need to duke it out and learn on their own like we all did. But 7,8,9 is just so young and they might not know how to handle it themselves.
Crap. I don't know. I still want to go over and punch her in her
evil little face. ;)